Do you ever find yourself wishing for a closer family bond but feel unsure about where to start or how to get everyone on the same page? You’re not alone. Many of us dream of a united family that stands together, supporting each other through life’s ups and downs. But the question is, how do we turn this dream into reality?
Today, I’m here to share some practical tips that will help you foster more unity within your family. These are strategies that we’ve found to be incredibly effective in our own journey toward creating a thriving family legacy. So, let’s dive right in!
The first step towards building a united family is to establish a clear mission statement. This should be a sentence that encapsulates what your family stands for. Involve everyone in the process – from the youngest to the oldest. This is a powerful way to ensure that everyone feels heard and valued, and it’s an opportunity to reinforce the principles that you want to guide your family’s actions and decisions.
Once you’ve crafted your family mission statement, display it somewhere visible in your home. This could be in the living room, the kitchen, or even the bathroom – anywhere that it will serve as a daily reminder of your family’s shared values and goals.
Communication is key to maintaining unity within a family. That’s why we recommend holding a weekly family meeting. In our family, we do this every Sunday afternoon. We discuss the upcoming week, coordinate schedules, and make sure everyone is on the same page. This is the time to discuss who’s picking up who, any extra appointments, or if there’s a business launch that might require additional support. These meetings ensure that everyone knows what’s happening and where, and they provide an opportunity to call in support if needed.
Last, but certainly not least, make sure to schedule at least two family fun events each month. These events are an opportunity to create shared experiences and memories, which are the building blocks of a strong family legacy. Involve your kids in the planning process – ask them what they’d like to do. These events don’t have to be expensive or elaborate. Something as simple as a family movie night can create a bonding experience that you and your kids will cherish.
Implementing these three strategies can go a long way towards creating more unity within your family. If you’re already using one of these tips, or if you decide to give them a try, I’d love to hear about it. Share your experiences in the comments below, and let’s continue to support each other as we build our thriving family legacies.
Remember, you’re not alone on this journey. We’re all in this together, Rainmakers. Let’s go out there and create some LEVERAGE and build a thriving legacy!
July 28, 2023